
What Kind of Person are You?
Basically, only others can judge us, we can’t just judge ourselves and tell everyone that we are cool, generous, humble, attractive, and smart because nobody’s gonna believe us, maybe some idiots will. So how would you know that if you’re that “good” characteristic? Yes, you can ask people around you about your character, about what kind of person are you. But don’t get it wrong, most people feel uncomfortable with that kind of question. Maybe you can ask them once, in the middle conversation, because the topic in the communication is not always about you, and if you keep asking them the question about yourself, they’ll probably bored because you makes yourself boring. You can ask that question to such a people like psychiatrists.
We can’t really predict people, some people will change, although they had that character in themselves for many years, or their habits changing after so many years. Everything happened for a reason, exactly. Something must’ve happened to them so that’s why they changed. Maybe he/she used to be kind, but lately, he/she seems quiet and like to be alone. They had their own reason. And it also happened to everyone in this world. When you’re in a good mood, you smiles a lot, but when troubles come and you’re in a bad mood, you just become quiet and even hard to fake a smile. But its all depend on how good you can control yourself.
The emotion just comes and go, in a day, we can get many emotions through anything, but if we just stay at home and sleep all day, not many emotions we get. Some people react through their emotions, some can blend in particular situation, the rest are fake people. So what are you? Can you blend with others in a certain situation? Or do you just react through your own emotions by letting that emotion controlling you. Or maybe you’re one of that fake people?
Do you ever feel good after helping someone? That feeling inside of your heart, which brings peace and calm in your heart. Helping others always brings a joy, if you help them with all your heart. Do you ever feel guilty after doing something bad? Something bad even if it was not intended. If you can still feel your heart, you’ll feel guilty, but if you don’t, I doubt you have one and you just don’t care even if they got hurt.
So anything you do, emotionally or not, it’ll show you who you are. If you murder people then just don’t give a damn, then you’re a bad person. If you steal from reach then give it to the poor, you’re slick but kind (but still a criminal). See the reflection from whatever you do, if it good people tends to think that you’re a good person, but if you do something bad, then people will think that you’re a bad person. But what if you do something good but people still think that you’re fake and actually you did all that with all your heart? Maybe because of your background, because of whatever you do before if people who have that thought in big population. But if they only in a group, they probably just jealous, you shouldn’t give a damn about them.
Most people only do whatever they want, they don’t want to be controlled by others. Our parents ask us to do something good, and they’re also trying to teach us. No parents ask their son or daughter to do something bad or criminal stuff, every parent wants their kid become somebody great personally in the future. But some kids just turns out to be someone bad and become criminal, mostly it’s because of social intercourse like bad influence from bad friends, and some because of the economic status. But there are also teenager or man from the rich family who became criminal, it just hard to believe.
You are who you are, you tell yourself what to do, you’re the only hero in your own life. Whatever you do just do it with all your heart. If you don’t want to, then don’t do it, because you might regret it, but if it’s something good, it’s up to you, who knows someday god will reward you something great in the future. So what kind of person are you?
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