SELF REFLECTION AND INTROSPECTION

Do you really know who you are? Or you just ignoring everything. Aristotle said "knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom". How far do you know yourself? Or you just know yourself when you're hungry, disappointed, sad and crying. Or maybe you just know yourself when you did something good, when you achieve something big, when your score is higher than everyone else. Do you ever blame someone else because of something bad happened when it's actually your own fault? Why did you do that? Is that proving the fact that you're better than anyone else? Well, nobody's perfect. Every human made mistake, even you. Most people will remember others' mistake, and they forgot their own mistake, this happens a lot. And then when something happened all because of yourself and nobody else to blame, you'll blame god for what happened. If you did so, then you must really think that you're perfect. Well, let me tell you one more time "nobody's perfect". Ok don't take god as an example that far, let say when you accidentally hit a table with your leg, you'd probably say "goddammit, stupid freaking table". If you're careful enough in the first place then you won't hit the table with your leg. So basically it happened because you didn't pay attention. What is that table mistake anyway, it can't move around, it can't talk, so why should you blame it? Look at yourself. Even though I explained about that, then you still says "it was completely that table's mistake, it was standing on my way", then I'd say "speak to yourself, you selfish son of the b*tch". 

If you're that kind of person, you can't make any friends, the friends that you already have will leave you on your own. Man... Who'd want to be friend with that kind of person. And even all the friends left you, but you still think that was god's mistake. Man, I hope god attack you with lightning. And then you die burning in hell, you start regretting all your mistake, and you wish you can fix it again but then you realized you can't go back anymore. Huuuft, eat sh*t and die.

So stop blaming everyone or anything when everything was your own mistake. If you blame someone who is aggressive you'll probably end up in the hospital. Therefore, we should introspect ourselves, look at ourselves, see the reflection. You can still apologize to anyone you blamed before. And I apologize for my bad English.

Even if something bad happened because of others and he/she didn't do it on purpose, you can't keep blaming them. What if you were him/her? How's it like to be in that position, the pressure on your head. So quit blaming them, you can just tell them "don't repeat it", "it's okay, next time make sure you can do better" or "everyone made a mistake, you can learn from this and improve yourself".

When you look at yourself, you can fix whatever is wrong with you, maybe too selfish, maybe too cocky, maybe over confidence. You can fix it, because there's no benefits to you if you blame others. You'll be lonely if you don't fix it, people will stay away from you. They don't want to be the wrong tree that you'll barking at. 

So that's all I have to say, I can write more, but I right I'm too lazy to continue this, I hope you find it helpful. Please share if you're pleased.