In This Life, the problem will always keep coming, in fact, until you die. Therefore, each person definitely have a problem, and they will encounter their own problems. We are certainly not likely to face others' problems, we already had our own problem, why do we need to think about others' problems? But we can still help them, and they also can help us.
Every step in life that you take will lead you to problem, no matter how small the problem is. Maybe when we were young as a kid, most of the forms filled by our parents. They helped us, as if it like it wasn't your business at all. The problem started when we needed to introduce ourselves, it is small problem, but still some people don't know how to introduce themselves in proper way. The problem was the nervous, "what should I say?", the body language, and all about public speaking problems. Until now and for the future, we will probably encounter this problem again. In fact, probably quite often. This is only small problem, why do you have to think about it too much? Well if you're an expert in public speaking, and your life is about dealing with anything in public, you can say it just "a piece of a cake". Sometimes you don't even think about it, you just get through it. Well, that's good because you don't have to think about little things that make you anxious. But if you're not an expert in public speaking, or if you're a newbie or beginner or some lower level like that, well this is tough for you, you're going to have to think about it before the presentation and while the presentation. But what makes an expert become an expert? To solve that problem, public speaking problem, you need to practice more. Because if you didn't practice before the presentation about yourself, you will slightly forget some things about yourself to share to others. And then you start thinking "Shut, I should've tell them that I'm good at ........" and you regret it and you wish that you can start it all over again. In order to avoid regret, you will have to practice before the presentation day. When you finish your practice, you will feel good about yourself. And then you finish the presentation (let's say in front of special people) close to perfect, and it's really good, and there you'll see the point where you just learn from the problem.
See, even if it's only small problem and then you master it, you simply learn from that problem. This problem is progressive, motivate you, encourage you. Even if it's only public speaking, if you like it you can expand it (the knowledge), how to be more charismatic, how to have an excellent body language, how to crack smart jokes, etc. So, mostly these kind of problems is good.
Don't get yourself in trouble!
Often older people tell us "don't get yourself in trouble". You certainly knows what it means. And of course trouble and problem are different, although it's very small differences between these two words. But right here, I used it for life terms, so basically problem for anything that difficult and the likes of obstacles. So the older people say that to you, and then you get yourself in trouble. For example you get caught for driving through red light and then you get fined. But you don't have money to pay the fine, and then call your relatives and tell them "I have a problem, can you loan me some money?". In this kind of problem, you're not encouraging yourself in knowledge or any other skills. But you disadvantage yourself. And if I'm your relatives I will say "that's not my problem". But still you'll learn something out of it, how come? You'll learn that if you driving through the red light you will be fined and endanger yourself. If you're stupid enough, you'll repeat it again and again until you involved yourself in an accident and die. And then you'll regret it, but it's too late, you can't go back. So, that's the meaning of learning something out of the problem.
So, basically you can learn from any kinds of problem. Whether it brings you to the better future, or it makes you stop, or it beneficially for your knowledge and skills. Without a problem you can still learn, but you will have to do it manually by reading some books about something, but with problems you can just simply practice it and sometimes it's like a drill and sometimes it's battlefield.
Are you a problem solver? How many problems have you been through? If there are a lots of problem you've been through, I'm sure you've learned so much. Mostly, we have to deal with our own problems, because we are the only one who can be the hero in our own life.
I hope you find it helpful and interesting, you can share it, and forgive my bad English.
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